Yes Ladies and my fellow mommies,
it has been abolished. My nails have been done for. They have lost their love,
their charm, their color, their polish. A time comes in all our lives when we
have to do away with something we so love doing, something that makes us happy,
that cheers us up during the most difficult and gloomy times. That one thing is
polishing my nails, pink and red….and beige and peach. My make up consists of
this one colorful thing that I can’t do without – my pretty pink nail polishes.
But as my baby turned into a
toddler, and that too quite a fashionable one (or so it seems), these have come
of age. Their time on my nails is over. Their presence from my makeup box and
my life is fast diminishing. It’s a fascination for her, to get her nails
painted pink and orange. I don’t even remember how and when it all started, but
I sure know that the end is nowhere near.
The eyes open with a dire need for
it and sleep drools over with beautifully painted mini nails tucked away in the
blanket in mummy’s lap. No matter how much I try, the day ends with a session
of polishing. On good days, we miss out on polish, only because we have a
lipstick in our hand. OMG that is another devil in the deep sea of
girl-toddler-fashion-parade!
We as children never had such
likes, either because our moms were not into such indulgence or we were
obedient and listened to our parents when they said “No”. The later is much
more believable and real. This seems farfetched in our times, when new age
mommies have preferences and likes for such things fashionable and trendy. And
why not? But then children happen! And the “end-it phases” come around, very
often.
The other day we were dining with
a group of friends, and as all mothers would do, I started discussing the
“tiresome-times-of-nail-painting”, the “never-ending-polish-tantrums”, the “life-with-a-toddler”
and there it was, the moment of “mean happiness” for me. The fellow mommy
explained how her five year old daughter would put on the polish each day after
coming back from school (as this is not allowed at school) and remove each
night before going to bed. The sheer comparison made me happy. Please don’t
judge me. But something tini-mini was very happy inside me. That I
didn’t have to deal with the “removing” part as yet. I was happy that till now
she has not seen anyone removing it from their nails. I was happy that till now
the polish remover is not in her life.
Not that I am not foreseeing this
becoming a part of our life too. I am very much, looking at my darling girl. I
know what’s in store for me, more polishes, and lipsticks and more make up.
Until then I have taken a call to abolish my dear polishes from my life!
Keeping a picture of the last application on my hands and feet, to look at and
be happy about.
A time comes when one finds shadows are longer then the life......
ReplyDeleteHi Uncle..pls elaborate.
DeleteSince we have been witness to her " Polish sessions " during our recent visit at yours, can understand ur feelings expressed above. So atleast u are not the first mom with such experiences. Enjoy this phase of kuhu's growing up & keep sharing ur experiences with us all.
ReplyDeleteWishing kuhu best of polishing.........................
Trying my best to share these with you all papa. Rest assured...there is no derth of such sessions...Thanks for stopping by and commenting as always !
DeleteVery well depicted. ...... transition from a girl to a woman to a mother....💅💅💅💅👌👌👌👌👌
ReplyDeleteThanks a ton neha. So happy to see u here. Hoping to hear more from you. love and hugs.
DeleteHaha, i'm a bemused bystander during these sessions of "polish chahiye" and "lipstick chahiye" by kuhu. All these add up to memories and stories that we'll share with her when she grows up!
ReplyDeleteYes when she grows up..for now I m still very surprised how can she ask for this first thing after waking up in the morning..as if she has been dreaming about it all night..
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